A Coaching Tip from Your Region!
đ Want More Referrals? Try This.
Hereâs something the Southwest Region recently picked up from the team at Giftologyâand itâs too good not to share. Itâs simple, itâs timeless, and it works. If you’re in a relationship-based business (and letâs be honest, we all are), these two tools will increase your referrals and make you easier to talk about:
đ 3-way texts and clarity conversations.
1ď¸âŁ The 3-Way Text
When you know two people in your network should meet, donât overthink it. Just connect them. The 3-way text is the fastest, most trust-building move you can make. You say something kind about each person, give context for the intro, and suggest a next step. Thatâs it.

Example:
âHey Rachel and DanâI wanted to connect you two. Rachelâs an amazing interior designer whoâs been transforming high-end listings for our team. Dan owns a boutique staging company and has worked wonders in the same space. Thought it might be worth a quick chat to compare notes and explore collab ideas.â
Thatâs 90 seconds of effort that can spark thousands of dollars in opportunityâor at the very least, goodwill you canât buy.
2ď¸âŁ Clarity Conversations
If youâve ever stumbled when someone asks what you do, youâre not alone. Thatâs why Clarity Conversationsâanother standout from the Giftology frameworkâare so powerful. Theyâre intentional, two-way conversations that clarify who you are, what you offer, and what kind of referrals you’re actually looking for.
Example:
After sitting down with a financial advisor recently, I asked, âIf I were to refer someone to you, what would I actually say?â That led to a 15-minute conversation where we boiled down his offer into one clear sentence, identified three ideal referral types, and even uncovered a few natural shoulder industries we hadnât considered before. Now, I can talk about his business like Iâm part of itâand thatâs the whole point.
Everyoneâs out here trying to automate connection. But the real wins still come from genuine conversations and thoughtful introductions. Shoutout to the team at Giftology for continuing to lead with practical tools that actually move the needle.
These are the kinds of things that keep you top of mindâand worth referring to.
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